It’s been a good start to a new year. Meeting lots of new business owners and hearing lots of good things that people intend to do. Had an interesting conversation with a long time client this morning and it sparked a thought about what many of my clients face.
This particular owner was enthusiastically describing a solution he’d come up with to deal with two employees who could not work together. The idea was to move one employee back to an area of the company that he used to be in with some changes to his previous responsibilities and to give the OTHER employee full control of a department that he currently worked in.
In theory this was a great solution; separated to people who were doing more harm than good when they worked together. In reality however the owner was simply avoiding the real issue.
These two employees have spent weeks if not months complaining to the owner daily about the other person. The owner would play the role of good listener and peacemaker. He ended up being the dumping ground for all of their dissatisfaction. The owner would do everything he could to keep the peace for fear of losing either employee.
Midway through our conversation it became very clear to the owner that he had to do the uncomfortable which was to stop letting the employees shape his actions and instead put his foot down. The owner is not going to sit both the employees down and let them know that if they can’t work together in the roles they were hired for, neither of them would be with the company any longer. They will need to stop coming to him with their complaints and instead start focusing on working together. The owner will let them know that the next time they speak it will be all three of them with the employees presenting THEIR plan on how to keep moving forward or they will both be terminated.
I”m proud of my client for having this realization and hope his meeting goes well. The take away here is:
1. Employees are adults and need to act like adults
2. Owners must not play middle man in these immature battles
3. Owners need to know that no one is irreplaceable. Just because someone is good at the tasks of their job does not mean they are good employees
4. When faced with these situations, owners need to be leaders and lead the employees to the solution, not be participants in the problem
I see this behavior all to often in small businesses. Owners typically go to one extreme or the other; over empathizing or becoming furious and ignoring the issue. In this case the owner has decided to actively solve the problem.
I’ll let you know how it turns out